chain reaction.

rule #9:

if you really want to forgive, you really must forget. the whole idea of forgiveness is “to give up all claim on account of”. this means that once you’ve decided to forgive.. you can’t just bring it up the next time you aren’t in good standing with that person. if you choose to leave it in the past.. then leave it there. carrying around a subconscious grudge will leave you with an inability to ever have a full & healthy relationship with the other person.

  1. languageofnoise posted this